Life story
" To the father, the husband, the brother, the uncle, the grandfather...
He was the kind of person who made life feel lighter just by being in it. He was clever in all the ways that mattered, always quick with a joke, and somehow always knew exactly what to say to make you laugh when you needed it most. He had a kind heart that showed up in the quiet moments—through thoughtful gestures, meaningful conversations, and the way he gave so much of himself to the people he loved.
If you knew him, you knew how special he was. He was the kind of man who remembered the little things—your favorite snack, the perfect gift, the moments that mattered. He didn’t just give gifts… he gave pieces of his heart.
Even through everything he faced, he stayed strong longer than anyone expected. And that was him—always showing up, always giving us more time, more love, more memories to hold onto.
On April 17 at 5:51, we said goodbye, but the impact he made on our lives will never leave us. He was deeply loved, and he will be deeply missed.
This is for his memory that will live through us all,
Thank you for helping us carry his memory forward. "
Services will be private.
Guest Book
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Joseph Demesa
12.54 AM 05/05/2026
"To the family of my Brother Hilario Pablo (Larry)Demesa. A Dodgers fan. Go Blue. So sorry for your loss!”
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Joseph Demesa
12.51 AM 05/05/2026
"To the family of my Brother Hilario Pablo (Larry) Demesa. So sorry for your loss! We've been there. God bless ”
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kyla cardona
07.54 PM 05/04/2026
"hey dad, i miss you. the world is different now that you’re not here. i wish we spent more time together because we weren’t as close back then. i didn’t understand things then, but i do now. thank you for always providing for me in the best way you could. thank you for all the memories, i wish we had more. i miss all your funny sweet texts and voicemails. i miss our facetime calls just because. i miss you annoying me because you wouldn’t get off the couch. i miss you folding my laundry when you come visit. i miss you bickering with ateh because you just wanted to mess with her. i miss you asking for room temperature water. i miss you waking up early just because. i miss playing bingo with you especially when we had to use cookie crisp cereal because we ran out of chips, and you won. i miss you teaching me about diamonds and rare Chanel bags. i miss you helping me choose my next car and my next outfit. i miss you defending me from mom. i miss you facetiming the girls and laughing with them. i miss your phone calls just because. i miss you asking me for more blankets because i always keep my house cold. i miss your voice and your warm hugs. i miss you just being my dad. i’ll always be your little kyla. i look at Kallum and see you in him. i can’t wait to see you again in heaven. i love you always dad. ”
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Chris Demesa
01.18 AM 05/04/2026
"My uncle was a big part of my childhood, he wasn’t just someone who gave me shoes or toys, he showed me love in the way he cared and made time for me. Some of my happiest memories are because of him, like spending time with my cousins and having sleepovers at their apartment. Those moments meant a lot to me, and I didn’t realize how special they were until now. He made me feel included, cared for, and happy. I’ll always carry those memories with me, and I’ll never forget how much he meant in my life.”
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Aadyn Demesa
12.50 AM 05/04/2026
"The Best grandpa ever i’ve always loved watching and talking about baseball with him and seeing who’s better the giants or the dodgers thanks for always supporting me yo-yo”
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K DEMESA PRADO
12.48 AM 05/04/2026
"For My Dad Dad, You were clever in a way that made people think, funny in a way that made people feel, and kind in a way that stayed with them long after you left the room. You had this quiet gift— not just for giving presents, but for knowing people. Every gift you gave meant something, like you saw straight into someone’s heart and handed them exactly what they didn’t even know they needed. You fought longer than anyone expected. Through everything… you stayed. And that matters more than words can ever hold. On April 17 at 5:51am, the world lost you— but we didn’t lose what you gave us. We carry your laughter, your thoughtfulness, your way of showing up without needing recognition. And somehow… even now… I still catch myself thinking, “What would Dad say right here?” And I can almost hear it— something clever, a little funny, and exactly what I needed. You weren’t just a great man. You were my dad. And that will always be the greatest gift I’ve ever had. I love you. Forever.”
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Guest Book
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Joseph Demesa
12.54 AM 05/05/2026
"To the family of my Brother Hilario Pablo (Larry)Demesa. A Dodgers fan. Go Blue. So sorry for your loss!”
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Joseph Demesa
12.51 AM 05/05/2026
"To the family of my Brother Hilario Pablo (Larry) Demesa. So sorry for your loss! We've been there. God bless ”
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kyla cardona
07.54 PM 05/04/2026
"hey dad, i miss you. the world is different now that you’re not here. i wish we spent more time together because we weren’t as close back then. i didn’t understand things then, but i do now. thank you for always providing for me in the best way you could. thank you for all the memories, i wish we had more. i miss all your funny sweet texts and voicemails. i miss our facetime calls just because. i miss you annoying me because you wouldn’t get off the couch. i miss you folding my laundry when you come visit. i miss you bickering with ateh because you just wanted to mess with her. i miss you asking for room temperature water. i miss you waking up early just because. i miss playing bingo with you especially when we had to use cookie crisp cereal because we ran out of chips, and you won. i miss you teaching me about diamonds and rare Chanel bags. i miss you helping me choose my next car and my next outfit. i miss you defending me from mom. i miss you facetiming the girls and laughing with them. i miss your phone calls just because. i miss you asking me for more blankets because i always keep my house cold. i miss your voice and your warm hugs. i miss you just being my dad. i’ll always be your little kyla. i look at Kallum and see you in him. i can’t wait to see you again in heaven. i love you always dad. ”
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Chris Demesa
01.18 AM 05/04/2026
"My uncle was a big part of my childhood, he wasn’t just someone who gave me shoes or toys, he showed me love in the way he cared and made time for me. Some of my happiest memories are because of him, like spending time with my cousins and having sleepovers at their apartment. Those moments meant a lot to me, and I didn’t realize how special they were until now. He made me feel included, cared for, and happy. I’ll always carry those memories with me, and I’ll never forget how much he meant in my life.”
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Aadyn Demesa
12.50 AM 05/04/2026
"The Best grandpa ever i’ve always loved watching and talking about baseball with him and seeing who’s better the giants or the dodgers thanks for always supporting me yo-yo”
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K DEMESA PRADO
12.48 AM 05/04/2026
"For My Dad Dad, You were clever in a way that made people think, funny in a way that made people feel, and kind in a way that stayed with them long after you left the room. You had this quiet gift— not just for giving presents, but for knowing people. Every gift you gave meant something, like you saw straight into someone’s heart and handed them exactly what they didn’t even know they needed. You fought longer than anyone expected. Through everything… you stayed. And that matters more than words can ever hold. On April 17 at 5:51am, the world lost you— but we didn’t lose what you gave us. We carry your laughter, your thoughtfulness, your way of showing up without needing recognition. And somehow… even now… I still catch myself thinking, “What would Dad say right here?” And I can almost hear it— something clever, a little funny, and exactly what I needed. You weren’t just a great man. You were my dad. And that will always be the greatest gift I’ve ever had. I love you. Forever.”